How do you detect someone is trans? Have you ever detected someone is trans based on the way they dress and talk? I've been in a situation where I can easily detected someone is trans through communication. No matter what's their gender identity, lgbt comunity is more likely to be misunderstood and blamed by other people. Many sites and organizations work on researching transgender people and their gender identity, I cannot say it is right or wrong to do that. By this way, transgender people can get more attentions form other people at least.
On the other hand, it doesn't mean they will accuse someone of being trans, it is nothing wrong to be ts dating partner. Why are they interested in researching and investing in the life journey of transgender people? For transgender people, it is more important to be the one they want to be than to be the one who can be accepted by other people. While, it couldn't be better if they can be a transgender person with the gender identity that can be accepted by everyone around them.
Misunderstanding on transgender people not only come from cisgender people and straight people, but also from other non-transgender people. For some reason, transgender people often feel guilty when tell other people that they are trans. When facing the reality that they are dating a trans person, some straight and cisgender people may feel uncomfortable. It understandable to doubt the dating intention and gender identity of a transgender person if you don't know about transgender people very well. Especially if you want to have a close relationship with someone, it is an important step to know about its personal truth. While it is another thing to throw your suspicious to your ts date partners. This is always a sensitive topic for transgender people. If you want to ask anything about being trans, you'd better ask in a respect and friendly way.
What you do and say might be impeding your progress towards happiness. Similarly, deny the gender identity of transgender people means deny them as ordinary individuals of the society. Many people look on transgender people as a special community which is different from everyone in the society. They are an important component of the society. Babies born and identified as girls have to dress, make up and act as female in their lives. Babies born and identified as boys have to dress, make up and act as male in their lives. It sounds nothing wrong, while there are some people don't agree with the gender they were born as. They are transgender people.
They have a gender identity which is different from the gender they were assigned at birth. It is nothing ridiculous if there is someone who is transgender, because transgender people are accepted by more and more people. They have the same rights as everyone else. They may not as perfect as some ordinary people, but they are normal individuals as everyone of us. No more blame on transgender people.