1. Flirt with your date
If you are always serious when talking to your potential partner, she will feel that there is no possibility that you can develop a relationship with each other. So even if she was going to be a couple with you, your reaction and attitude will only get her off the hook. So it's not a good thing to talk too seriously to show your respect and nobility for the development of your trans hookup relationship.
There is an ambiguous atmosphere between any two people who intend to develop into a lover relationship. You are both friends and lovers. This relationship is the most beautiful and attractive. So you can try to make flirtatious remarks to let her know that you want to be her partner, not just be in a simple friendship. In addition to some verbal flirting, you can also resort to physical touches. For example, if she didn't realize it, give her finger a dip, or go hold her waist and so on.
2. Message your date every day
Having the phone number of a transgender partner you're interested in is one of the things you have to do. If you haven't, you should ask her friend or get her number in some other way. After that, you should contact her regularly and let her get used to your existence. For the first time, you'd better contact her by text rather than by phone. Calling is not the best choice when your relationship has not been improved. By sending a message, you can carefully consider what you want to say. And the words you send can create a fantastic space for her.
When you send her a message, if she replies to you in the same tone, it's a good sign, because it shows that she likes you too. Whether you send her wishes or question her something. All in all, you have to contact her every day.
Whether it's flirting with your potential transgender dating partner or sending her messages every day, that's what you do when you're just starting to pursue her. This can put you in an ambiguous atmosphere and help you to pursue more aggressively in the follow-up process. When this ambiguous stage has lasted for some time, you should further develop with her.